For all men who suffer from poor or short-lived penile erections

Hi guys,    I am 40 years old and have been having problems with ED for 6/7  years, it was gradually declining. I did see my family physician and  he refered me to a few urologists after all the blood work has been  done, and everything seems to be in normal range.    However all the urologists just said that it is mostly psychological  since nothing wrong showing from my blood work. They will just  prescribe me with our modern wonder drugs. Those drugs/pills do work  for me. Other than those drugs, I also tried some of the natural  herbal supplements which do help in some way but not always. One of  the urologists did mention about venous leakage, he said is  incurable, and he suggested me to wear a cock ring.    At this point,without taking any of the pills, I can manage to  masturbate with lube and make myself cum as long as I keep stroking  my penis.    The problem is that I notice in the last 3/4 years, I also lost all  the erotic, sexual, nerve ending sensation. What I mean is that if  anyone tries to arouse me by touching/oralling my inner thighs,  balls, penis, abdomen, or any part of my body, I do not feel those  exciting sensual,sexual, arousal sensation, it is only just like  someone touching my finger. I rememebered before 3/4 years ago, even  if I have problem in maintaining my erection, I still have those  sensitive feeling, like rubbing my morning wood against the  bedsheets or stroking my penis.    Does anyone have the similar problem? Does anyone know if this is a  psychological issue or a nerve problem? From my experience, the  sensitive arousal touching feeling is one of the reasons an erection  is triggered. If my body is numbed, of course I dont feel aroused.    Please advise!.

Thanks

I am a 30yr old male working in Honolulu and I have had ED problems  since I was 20 years old. I am looking for a good urologist here who  will take the time to help with my problems.    I have had girlfriends every now and then but eventually they have  left because my performance was either impossible or very rare.  Lately I find my libido also dropping off significantly.    Very recently I have a new girlfriend and I really want to make it  this time with her. I cannot discuss this because the relationship  is too new and I really don’t want to scare her off. But I know she  is very interested in sex and has lot of experience. I tried Cialis  ordered from the internet twice in 20mg doses and it had only tepid  results. It also felt like I had a flu, which made me rather  disinterested in sex!    I am wondering now perhaps I have some more serious health issue  based on comments from people on this (God-sent) forum. I would like  some suggestions for a sympathetic urologist in this city. Also  would like your comments.

I have been reading many “body building” forums due to the fact that  Body Builders often exp temporary impotence due to the steriods they  take..many of them have posted good results with erections when they  combine Proviron with any of the pills ( Viagra, Levitra, or Cialis )

Proviron is a snythetic testosterone to raise testosterone on a daily  basis and is not anabolic. Easy to buy online, made in US labs, and  no prescription needed. Seems very safe since its not anabolic and  its metabolized within 24 hours.

Also..anyone use Zupro or any other of the many herbalist treatments  available ?  I mean..the chinese have been treating this issue ( ED )  with herb combinations for 5000 years..something tells me that an  approved chinese herbalist/accupuncturist could really help.

All this said becasue all of sudden ( due to some marriage problems )  my previous ED treatment of Cialis (20mg) doesnt work anymore. In  fact, I have always responded well to Viagra and Levitra also, but  prefer Cialis due to the lack of side effects + its for 36 hours.

any thoughts would be nice to hear

Hello !

I am 25 & yet unmarried.I used to masterbate a lot & snce last 1  yr i dont get erection & have problem ejaculating but the biggest of all problem  is that my left testicle pains a lot.I had been to urologist & he said that my  veins have destroyed & operation is must. As a result my sperm count has also  gone down.

If anyone has faced this problem or knows the solution plz advice  me.

I m in great trouble.Thx in advance.

Hey guys.  This is my first time using this blog.  I’m 34 and began  experiencing erectile difficulty when i was about 31.  I have talked  to my family dr, who referred me to a urologist…actually…2  urologists.

The first one was a jerk who pretty much told me it was  all in my head and to get over it.

The 2nd one didn’t give my any  satisfactory answers, but offered to prescribe some pill you stick in  your penis (doesn’t sound pleasant).

Anyway, I most often (although  sometimes I don’t) have success using a generic version of cialis.  Since it is supposed to last up to 36 hours, I’ve been pretty much  taking it every other day for the past 2 years (my partner is 10 yrs  younger than me and likes sex all the time).

Does anybody know of any  long term adverse effects of using the drug like this.  I would like  to not have to use it someday!

Hi,  I’d like to introduce myself.  I’m a male in my  mid-50s who is having problems with E.D.  The problems  are the result of SSRI anti-depressants that I have  been taking for several years and will have to  continue to take indefinitely.  Unfortunately, due to  some other health problems, I cannot take Viagra,  Cialis or any of the pro-erection drugs.    The E.D. problem has recently gotten much worse  because I have had to increase the dosage of the  anti-depressants.  So I now am starting to consider a  pump, injection or MUSE–but definitely not a penile  implant.  Even the MUSE seems too dreadful to try.  But what about the injections?  Does it not hurt to  stick a needle into the penis?  How expensive is the  injectible medication?  Is it easier to administer  than the mechanics of the  pump?    Thanks in advance for your advice.

Hi am new to this blog-forum and hope that am welcome because am a lady and  not a man. Would like to have a greater understanding of what men go  through and experience in this area. Would be great to make friends as  well so as to have a more personal interaction and even greater  understanding. Am 27, single and studied Psychology.

The Urologist said I have Peyronies.  I have two lumps  deep inside my penis halfway down.  He said it was inside the walls of  the blood vessels.  Above the scare line at the top my penis slighty  leans back.  After talking to them I figure I ruptured the blood  vessel walls during sex due to not being fully hard and ingaging (I  take depression meds that most likely effected this aspect of  hardness).    So, they are trying to figure out what meds I can take to get harder  since I take depression med and something to reduce my prostate size  so I can pee better.    Is there any cream that can be put on the penis during sex to make it  harder until we figure out the medical pill thing?  Also, will these  lumps go away over time if I do certain things right?

I got an injection of Bimix from a urologist on Tuesday. After the  erection went down, I found a lump the size of a large bean. It is  deep inside, not on the surface like hematomas I’ve had from injecting  myself with Caverject. I have injected myself about 500 times over 4  years and never experienced anything like this before. It is now three  days, and I can still feel it from both sides of my penis. My penis is  tender from the injection site to the distal end of the shaft. I am  worried about possible permanent damage. I dont want to go back to see  the urologist. He is more than 100 miles away but more important, I  don’t trust him now. I would be too embarrassed to see my regular  doctor. What would I say? “Hi Doc, please feel my penis.” I need this  guy’s help, so I dont want to alienate him. I’m sure he would be  uncomfortable. He has never asked me to disrobe and never examined me  below my belt even for a physical. It takes weeks to get in to see  another urologist even if I had a referral. Has anyone had this kind  of injury before? How did you treat it?

but ut is INCREDIBLY  difficult for me to experience ejaculation. I must be on my knees  and do a gymnastics routine of bending, pushing pulling and  stretching. I have had it for a few years and I have had a urologist  tell me there is nothing wrong I have been through therapy and I and  100% convinced it is a hormonal or neurological problem. I can get  erections but they wont stay up unless I am in “the position”. It’s  been going on for a while and has gotten worse over the last few  years. I am consequently obsessed. I cant stop thinking about  masturbation and also other men getting off. When I have these  thoughts, it makes me angry. Very angry, becausee I am jelaous of  thier ability to come easily. I remmebr what it was like to function  like that and it makes me so upset that I am no longer able. These  thoughts consume my day, and I often run to the men’s room to  masturbate, even though I cant come unless I do my stretching on the  floor. I obviously cant do that in the men’s room at work, so I end  up more frustrated than before and continue to have these obsessive  thoughts about it. I know that there are issues of inadequacy and  being jealous of other men I need to work out with my psychologist,  but I think a loop has been created chemicallly as well. This is  torture for me and is putting a huge strain on my realtionship with  my partner(male) and our sex life. He is bored with the fact that he  cant make me cum and I have to do it myself, all stretched out, He  says some day he is going to have to fulfill certain needs elsewhere  but he still loves me and doesnt want to break up. He feels that  outside sex is just a way to add variety and fulfill certain things.  I tend to agree, but it makes me feel so inadequate and broken to  think of him getting fullfilled by another man when I cannot offer  the same. I am not angry with him at all, in fact I feel bad for him  having to deal with this. It makes me feel worse about my problem  though and I feel like its my fault because I dont function right. I  just want to feel like a normal man again and its all I can think  about. Can anyone offer any insight, advice, a way to stop the  obsessive thoughts about it?. I know that The physical problem  should be dealt with, with a medical doctor,(Levitra helps with the  erection problem but not the ejaculation, in fact it makes it MORE  difficult) but my REACTION to it is not helping at all. I feel so  out of control, lost and broken and am in despair over this. People  dont realize how much sexual dysfunction hurts.