Hi am new to this blog-forum and hope that am welcome because am a lady and not a man. Would like to have a greater understanding of what men go through and experience in this area. Would be great to make friends as well so as to have a more personal interaction and even greater understanding. Am 27, single and studied Psychology.
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I have never
had a chance to learn all this because most men would rather not talk about it,
worse more to ladies. Just wanted to find out more, if any of you were ‘born’
impotent, would you still get married? and would that affect the successful of
your marriage , that is supposing your wife has no problem with it. Would be
interested in hearing from the married men
I can only make suppositions on this. When my trouble peaked I wasn’t as much in a relationship as having had a “friend with benifits” helping me see how I functioned. The thing you’re talking about would make a diferent person. If a person has coped with and accepted their impotence as absolute any relationship would have to get to that subject early on and grow from there. Just like guys born with one testicle (I know one) will see a relationship going to serious and if they want it will say how they’re not normal, I’d think a man that would stay flacid would tell a woman. As always, it’s a matter of them wanting that relationship or not. Not all mariages have a sexual aspect and not all sex is penis focused. I’ve seen a man get better sex when his tongue reached farther after all his teeth came out. Also, there are plenty of non-sexual couples in the world. Love is deeper than the reach of a penis. Yes, it’s a shame that we men are ashamed to have a problem, to talk about it, to seek help in our emotions as well as our sex. Thanks to the internet we can shield ourselves from eyes of pity.(Not to mention that feeling that somebody might act on unwanted homosexual attraction) We open up more without the faces for some reason.
Anonymity is the great equalizer isn’t it? I remember reading about one of these “New Warrior Training Adventures” (I think they’re called) where the guys attending the weekend at one point all get naked in a drum circle or something. The object being to take away the inequality of clothes. In the cyber world, you can be figuratively “naked” without worry about how others are “seeing” you.
You’re right that it’s a shame men have difficulty talking about this, but at the same time, you can understand it. I know with the group of guys that I hang around with, I’m not sure it’s ever come up in conversation and we’re all pretty medically aware. Just not one of those subjects you talk about very much. I think it’s slowly changing, but it is a slow process of education. In the meantime, the internet is providing a great service by at least giving guys (and women too!) “permission” to talk about this stuff openly and know that they’re not alone. You make a good point. Cheers.